I think a fair share of the black females I come in contact with or associate myself with, can be viewed as strong women. It seams like most of them feel like its hard to find a man who fits their list of qualifications. I need this I need that. I do agree with being with someone who fits your standards, and I don't think anyone should settle. In comparison to the time spent looking for someone who can suit their every need, I don't think enough energy is spent on thinking about what they have to bring to the man and the/their relationship. TAKE, TAKE, TAKE. Relationships are a give and take process. The same thing goes for dudes looking for a woman who is "down for them."
So to all my followers who feel like there's nothing good out there for them, I say :
1::.Open yourself up to the idea of giving in a relationship
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2 ::.If you cant find the kind of partner your looking for, your looking in all the wrong places ..
Theres no right places. The right men are disguised by the wrong ones which make them hard to "find". You'll never find a clique of good men. There's just a pack of vultures and maybe a good guy in the mix, but you'd have to weed out the vultures first
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