My name is Marcarthur. I am a full time student at Syracuse University. I have no intentions of leaving this damn school until I obtain what I came here to get!

Thursday, July 29, 2010

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I think a fair share of the black females I come in contact with or associate myself with, can be viewed as strong women. It seams like most of them feel like its hard to find a man who fits their list of qualifications. I need this I need that. I do agree with being with someone who fits your standards, and I don't think anyone should settle. In comparison to the time spent looking for someone who can suit their every need, I don't think enough energy is spent on thinking about what they have to bring to the man and the/their relationship. TAKE, TAKE, TAKE. Relationships are a give and take process. The same thing goes for dudes looking for a woman who is "down for them."

So to all my followers who feel like there's nothing good out there for them, I say :
1::.Open yourself up to the idea of giving in a relationship
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2 ::.If you cant find the kind of partner your looking for, your looking in all the wrong places ..

1 comment:

  1. Theres no right places. The right men are disguised by the wrong ones which make them hard to "find". You'll never find a clique of good men. There's just a pack of vultures and maybe a good guy in the mix, but you'd have to weed out the vultures first

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