
Thursday, July 29, 2010
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I think a fair share of the black females I come in contact with or associate myself with, can be viewed as strong women. It seams like most of them feel like its hard to find a man who fits their list of qualifications. I need this I need that. I do agree with being with someone who fits your standards, and I don't think anyone should settle. In comparison to the time spent looking for someone who can suit their every need, I don't think enough energy is spent on thinking about what they have to bring to the man and the/their relationship. TAKE, TAKE, TAKE. Relationships are a give and take process. The same thing goes for dudes looking for a woman who is "down for them."
So to all my followers who feel like there's nothing good out there for them, I say :
1::.Open yourself up to the idea of giving in a relationship
&
2 ::.If you cant find the kind of partner your looking for, your looking in all the wrong places ..
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
Thursday, July 22, 2010
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
NEVER SAY NEVER
I've learned that especially with fashion, never say never. Im starting to understand you need to be open to new things, not to say I would wear any and everything. Its just crazy where my my point of interest in clothing is now compared to 5 years ago.. Shit happens.
BEING BROKE ANT NO JOKE
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
I think a fair share of the black females I come in contact with or associate myself with, can be viewed as strong women. It seams like most of them feel like its hard to find a man who fits their list of qualifications. I need this I need that. I do agree with being with being with someone who fits your standards, and I don't think anyone should settle. In comparison to the time spent looking for someone who can suit their every need, I don't think enough energy is spent on thinking about what they have to bring to the man and the/their relationship. TAKE, TAKE, TAKE. Relationships are a give and take process. The same thing goes for dudes looking for a woman who is "down for them."
So to all my followers who feel like there's nothing good out there for them, I say :
1::.Open yourself up to the idea of giving in a relationship
&
2 ::.If you cant find the kind of partner your looking for, your looking in all the wrong places ..
HEAD COUNT
Its weird when I walk outside and I see the diverse group of individuals that are walking about on my way to the train station.
Growing up in the city of Boston, I guess I associated the city, being where all the non white people live. Cities were dangerous.
Then I associated the suburbs with white people, mostly because they were safe and away from blacks.
Up until recently I think I was right about who lived where, but now its crazy because the demographics are changing right in front of my eyes.
Everything beginning to switch up. Black people are moving into the suburbs and white people are moving into the inner city.
If I'm correct the same thing is happening in New York. My family just bought a house in the city so i don't even follow my theory, but regardless I still feel that way.
I don't want to talk about white people like a thing or an object but they're everywhere and its becoming more noticeable every day.
To be honest I don't know how I feel about this. Its just, I don't know... It's just kinda weird to have it happen right in front of my eyes. Don't mind me, I'm just venting.
You always have some one to relate to
Or who can relate to you ... Tweets in Response to mine
My Tweets..
Ladies and gentleman, realize that i realize that i can be aggravating at times. but you have to understand...2:07 PM Jul 19th via web
no one sympathizes with you more than me. Bcuz while you have to put up with me at hours at a time or even less, Im stuck with myself 24/7..2:08 PM Jul 19th via web
So before you suck your teeth and start rashing me inside your head, realize i know .. i know ..July 19, 2010 3:09:52 PM EDT via web
Tweets in Response to mine
aaaah, that ish about havin to put up with yourself 24/7, i think about that allll the timeee! like . . .about 23 hours ago via web in reply to Anavidpoorman
no one can get more fed up with me than i can get with my damn self, and no one can love me more that i love myself lolabout 23 hours ago via web
no one sympathizes with you more than me. Bcuz while you have to put up with me at hours at a time or even less, Im stuck with myself 24/7..2:08 PM Jul 19th via web
So before you suck your teeth and start rashing me inside your head, realize i know .. i know ..July 19, 2010 3:09:52 PM EDT via web
Tweets in Response to mine
aaaah, that ish about havin to put up with yourself 24/7, i think about that allll the timeee! like . . .about 23 hours ago via web in reply to Anavidpoorman
no one can get more fed up with me than i can get with my damn self, and no one can love me more that i love myself lolabout 23 hours ago via web
Monday, July 19, 2010
MY FAULT
Before I saw this video i thought bow weezy was bringing this heat to my car speakers... I was sadly mistaken ..
J. Cole - Who dat from Samantha Schertz on Vimeo.
Sunday, July 18, 2010
SOOO TRUUUE
"They play it safe
Are quick to assassinate what they do not understand
They move in packs
Ingesting more and more fear
With every act of hate on one another
They feel most comfortable in groups: less guilt to swallow
They are us this is what we have become
Afraid to respect the individual
A single person or event or circumstance can move one to change:
To love herself
To evolve"
WINDOW SEAT
Erykah Badu got a bunch of charges pressed against her for shooting the video at a public park during broad daylight for public indecency. She said it was an artistic expression. How do you feel about getting arrested for something you believe in?
Erykah Badu "Window Seat" from triggerhappy on Vimeo.
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
DIVERSITY
BLUEPRINT SWITCH UP
I'm not consistent enough with my writing to just post poetry.
So I'm making this my official ramble whatever is on my mind,
quote, poetry, cool picture and whatever else I can think of blog.
Hope I meet my own standards.
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
When I was little I learned not to judge people. Mostly because you have no idea why they do what they do. But it seams the older I get it's harder and harder not to.
Where ever I am, whatever I'm doing, I'm associated with a certain crowd. I'm in a circle. I feel my self looking at those outside the circle funny. I don't mean to I swear. I wish I new when it started.
Seriously, I think it started in private school. Lol it kinda sucks to be judged. My middle school cost 34,000 dollars to attend. Ferraris were picking kids up after school left and right. I had no problem with my fathers Nissan Altima. I kinda thought it was fly actually. We had the best hoopdi on the block I'll tell you that. But those little bastards made me feel some sort of way about it. When I went to that school I thought those kids were perfect and that's how smart children where suppose to walk, talk, play and think. I think that's when I began to harbor the idea of judging.
Even still I knew it wasn't something to make a habit of. I think when I left that school I balanced back out. I chilled out and just let people form their own impressions on me, from actually getting to know them.
After switching high school I think I might have resorted back to my private school ways of thinking. When I switched it was private school all over. It sucked. It's sad and safe to say most of the black kids tried to fit in with the white kids. It was kinda pathetic because people should want to be around you for who you really are inside. Regardless of how hard they tried they were always looked at as outsiders. I think I picked up this bad habit from them just as I did in private school.
When did I first realize this? When my friend tweeted this ...
"Yesterday when we were getting high, you were invited, you would of liked it."
My reaction was like wow, smh blah blah blah. I was disappointed. Not about the actual smoking part, cause even though I don't approve I could care less. I just was like why is she publishing her business. At least to me, I don't think that's something the public needs to know. But needless to say I felt extremely dumb when I heard the song she quoted. Then I began to shake my head at my own damn self.Have to drop bad habits like these.
I'm happy I have friends who help me learn and realize things about myself. Positivity comes in all shapes and sizes. Thank you friend. Apologies go out to you.
Sub-thoughts{Kool aid, Heat stroke, Pool/Beach, Work}
Where ever I am, whatever I'm doing, I'm associated with a certain crowd. I'm in a circle. I feel my self looking at those outside the circle funny. I don't mean to I swear. I wish I new when it started.
Seriously, I think it started in private school. Lol it kinda sucks to be judged. My middle school cost 34,000 dollars to attend. Ferraris were picking kids up after school left and right. I had no problem with my fathers Nissan Altima. I kinda thought it was fly actually. We had the best hoopdi on the block I'll tell you that. But those little bastards made me feel some sort of way about it. When I went to that school I thought those kids were perfect and that's how smart children where suppose to walk, talk, play and think. I think that's when I began to harbor the idea of judging.
Even still I knew it wasn't something to make a habit of. I think when I left that school I balanced back out. I chilled out and just let people form their own impressions on me, from actually getting to know them.
After switching high school I think I might have resorted back to my private school ways of thinking. When I switched it was private school all over. It sucked. It's sad and safe to say most of the black kids tried to fit in with the white kids. It was kinda pathetic because people should want to be around you for who you really are inside. Regardless of how hard they tried they were always looked at as outsiders. I think I picked up this bad habit from them just as I did in private school.
When did I first realize this? When my friend tweeted this ...
"Yesterday when we were getting high, you were invited, you would of liked it."
My reaction was like wow, smh blah blah blah. I was disappointed. Not about the actual smoking part, cause even though I don't approve I could care less. I just was like why is she publishing her business. At least to me, I don't think that's something the public needs to know. But needless to say I felt extremely dumb when I heard the song she quoted. Then I began to shake my head at my own damn self.Have to drop bad habits like these.
I'm happy I have friends who help me learn and realize things about myself. Positivity comes in all shapes and sizes. Thank you friend. Apologies go out to you.
Sub-thoughts{Kool aid, Heat stroke, Pool/Beach, Work}
Sunday, July 4, 2010
PLZ DONT GAS ME UP
Some females and males run on hot air.
Never let them have the satisfaction of
thinking they're that important to you.
Unless they really are ..
"While they running on gas, we don't ever need petro"
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